Why, hello world.
I had to take a break from professional writing for a few months due to conflicts of interest, and although you’d think that meant I’d be more free to write for my poor unloved blog, I guess..not. Huh.
Wait But Why, my new favorite beloved, has a great post explaining, well, why, I can’t sometimes just get off my butt and write. Especially without a deadline, or (and this is important), the promise of money.
Hatas gonna hate. Procrastinators gonna procrastinate.
Where was I?
I do have one pro-free range parenting article from earlier this year up on that other site:
It’s not much of a controversial issue by this point. It’s totally in vogue now to be all like, “Hey, those crazy overprotective parents, I mean, right?” And, like I’ve said before, this blog is not for advocacy or controversies or opinions — just information. So instead I want to highlight some of the feeding and nutrition stuff mentioned in the article.
Ellyn Satter, a nutrition expert, has become famous for counseling parents on feeding their children and minimizing mealtime battles, beginning with newborns. We talk more and more about on-demand breastfeeding for infants, and thank goodness. Study after study has indicated that infants know when they are hungry and when they are full.
We young parents are starting to get that. But we still don’t get that the concept extends beyond infancy. We’re treating the infants with respect and then infantilizing our toddlers, instead of learning the mealtime division of responsibility:
- The parent is responsible for what, when, where
- The child is responsible for how much and whether
This means that if your kid doesn’t want to eat the healthy well-balanced meal you provided, even when considering their taste preferences, well, okay. They will live.
Even as a Satter devotee I don’t perfectly follow her rules. No food in between snacks and mealtimes? Nope. I’m theworst. My kids regularly ruin their dinner, even if they are eating healthy snacks. You know why I break that rule on a regular basis? Because after two babies who had weight issues, I’m still afraid I’m starving my kids. Yeah, those kids. The healthy ones over there currently trying to dismantle my bookshelf.
Our kids are so much more capable than we give them credit for.
For more information regarding implementing the Satter method, check out the incomparable Amalah, who writes an advice column on AlphaMom.
..and so much more. Amy (Amalah) really really loves Satter. And I love Amy. So it’s just a hippie circle of love over here.