Best Video Baby Monitors

When L was born, I pooh poohed the idea of having a video monitor.  We had a small enough house, we could keep the door to her room open and look in if we needed to, and I had an audio monitor so I could hear her – who needed to see her?

A few months later, I was cursing my decision. The audio monitor I had picked was analog, not digital, so it picked up signals and interference from our neighbors, and I couldn’t count how many times I was running up and down the stairs to see if she *really* needed me when she cried in her sleep (and how much effort it took to have her avoid seeing me.) I realized the video monitor wasn’t just the province of overly watchful nervous parents, but also a matter of convenience.

Luckily, I was pregnant with Baby J and soon to move into a new, larger, house, so I needed a monitoring solution that would cover two babies. With that, I gave myself permission to look into video monitors.

But which one? As usual, the choices are endless, and the technology is forever changing.Whenever I buy a new product, my first attempt at paring down the choices involves going to Amazon, typing in “video monitors” or whatnot, and then sorting by user reviews.  However, for the purposes of this article, let’s check out expert(ish) rankings available on the internet.

First up is parenting favorite  They have their review separated by Best Overall, Best Value, etc. Many of their selections are from the Summer Infant line. I have to admit I don’t know from what year their ranking is, because there are some glaring omissions.

Next, there’s Baby Bargains, the guru of bargain-hunting new parents.

These are their recommendations:


Best Bet: Infant Optics DXR-5 ($99)
– FHSS technology helps avoid interference
– 2.4″ display
– simple set-up
– voice activated mode

Runner-Up: Samsung BabyVIEW SEW-3036WN ($180)
– 3.5″ display
– time display
– intercom
– zoom feature


Best Bet: Samsung SafeVIEW SEW-3037W ($230)
– voice activated option
– remote nightlight
– 3.5″ display
– very good night vision

Runner-Up #1: Summer BabyTouch Digital Monitor ($190-$260)
– touch-screen parent unit
– 3.5″ color display
– intercom feature

Runner-Up #2: Motorola MBP36 ($200)
– similar to Summer BabyTouch
– “clunky” interface to navigate when changing settings
– poor night vision


Best Bet: Summer Peek Plus Internet Baby Monitor System ($350)
– 2.5″ display with fixed camera
– internet router enables viewing online or via apps

Runner-Up #1: Dropcam ($150)
– fixed camera
– 60 second set-up
– can view via Dropcam website or app
– no parent display unit, have to re-purpose an old iPhone or iPod Touch as viewer

Runner-Up #2: Withings Smart Baby Monitor ($250-$300)
– streams to phone
– no parent unit

Lucie’s List also tackles the video monitor issue.  She asserts the Summer Infant babyTouch Color, the Samsung Wireless Pan/Tilt and the Motorola Wireless Monitor with Infrared Vision are good quality and about the same.

She also points out an IP camera or an iPhone app can do the trick.  The most well-known IP camera for these purposes is the Foscam.  However, it generally takes someone more tech-savvy to set it up.

My notes:

We have the Motorola MBP36 with two cameras and love it.  Please nite, unlike the MBP33 recommended by Lucie’s List, the 36 has pan and tilt. Believe me, this is invaluable.

Second, there have been advancements since the website recommended the Foscam as an IP camera.  There are the ones mentioned by Baby Bargains, and there’s also the Motorola Blink. If the Blink had existed when we needed a baby monitor, we would have looked into it, especially as we could have linked it to our iPads.  However, check out the Amazon reviews for more details, including whether the Foscam is still a better choice.


Buying a Mattress for a Toddler

Well, L is moving into a full-size bed. And therefore, I have to buy the kid a mattress.

To explain what an undertaking this is – we have one crib, one toddler bed, one king bed, and one futon in our house. None of those have mattresses my parents’ generation generally approves of. The futon is..well, a futon. The king mattress is foam from Ikea – I love it, and it was cheap, but it is too firm from most people. (I also strongly suspect it’s time to replace it). It’s one of the Sultan collection. I wager it’s just foam, not even memory foam. When it came to crib mattresses, I really didn’t care, as long as the mattress was firm. So L got a foam mattress from Ikea (the crib version of our king). When the mattress shrunk in our move, I bought a high-rated but inexpensive mattress off Amazon. That one went to baby J. And L now sleeps in a hand me down crib/toddler bed that came with a hand-me-down mattress, so I don’t even know what kind it is.

And mattress pads? Huh? I don’t think any of our beds have a mattress pad.

But, I figure I’d actually do some research for L’s bed, especially because I want her to be sleeping in it for a while. So off I went to Google.

Here are a few considerations one should have in looking for a kids’ mattress.


Do you want a toddler bed, a twin, an extra-long twin, a full, or a queen for your child?

Most parents I spoke to recommended getting the largest size you could fit in your child’s room. That way your child (especially a girl, at least from anecdotal experience) could have sleepovers and share a bed. You can also lie down with your child if needed. Finally, the bed can grow up with your child.

We ended up going with a full bed from Pottery Barn.  I liked it because it had the style I wanted for L’s room, most reviews indicated it was durable, it could be put together with- or without a boxspring (so I can adjust height) and the bed frame can be raised or lowered (also for adjusting height). That way, I could make it toddler-friendly for now but it could grow with her. It could also accommodate a trundle or storage unit if I wanted.

Trust me, I’m cheap, so it’s not like me to blow money at Pottery Barn, but yes, I did it. Actually, it was about the same price as most of the other beds  I was considering.

Anyway, bottom line -bedsize for us = full.


Your child’s comfort is important to a good nights’ sleep. Most people begin with that philosophy with  babies. Me? I figure babies can learn to sleep anywhere, so I skimped. But L is two now, and I want this mattress to be comfortable for years.

For older kids, it’s generally good to take them mattress shopping with you and to have them test out the mattress. Alas, a two year old really isn’t going to give me a preference, so I just lay down on every mattres on every store.

But, since I am not a mattress connoisseur, everything felt fine to me. Especially because I like firm mattresses, and in general, I’m looking for firm for my daughter.

Memory Foam or innerspring?

So, apparently, memory foam isn’t good for kids. Do I know if that’s actually true? Nope, not at all. But some arguments against are that memory foam isn’t supportive enough for growing bodies, and that memory foam releases off-gassing chemicals. Okay. Who knows if it’s true, but I used it as a guideline. So I stuck with innerspring mattresses.

Here’s more information on memory foam.
If you don’t care about memory foam vs. innerspring, at least one blogger picked a memory foam mattress for her children. But, her children were a) older and b.) she got her Serta mattress for free!

Organic or not?

Gah. Do I care? No.

But you might. And I don’t blame you. If that’s the case, Naturepedic is a highly recommended organic mattress, and one that doesn’t just slap the ‘organic’ label on willy nillyLand of Nod, the Crate and Barrel kids’ store, also sells Naturepedic.

Want other recommendations of organic mattresses? Check out the Berkeley Parent’s network. They seem to love the European Sleepworks mattress. (The store is in Berkeley, natch)


Generally, the firmer, the better (better support for growing bodies), but so firm it feels like one is sleeping on concrete. A good middle ground is a firm innerspring mattress with a comfortable topper.

The topper, however, is a bit of a controversy. Most websites will tell you outright that pillowtop mattresses are a ripoff. The pillowtop wears off faster than the mattress itself, and therefore it’s better to get a firm mattress and then use a mattress pad for comfort. Some sites go further and say to not even go for a firm mattress with a memory foam topper (ex: a plush mattress vs. pillowtop) and to instead buy the firmest mattress possible and buy a separate topper (whether memory foam or latex).

Of course, when I spoke to a mattress salesman, I got a different story. I was told the structure of the mattress changes (in terms of how it feels on your body) if you add a separate topper, and that it was better to go for the all-in-one pillowtop or at least memory foam topper. Then, if the topper or pillowtop wears out, to only then add a separate topper or mattress pad.

I’d probably go with the general view of doing it all separate, though, especially when you’re dealing with kids. If your child soils the separate topper, for example, then you can replace just that without replacing the whole mattress.

The Mattress Expert has some information on latex toppers.


What is a quality mattress?

According to the Sleep Council, the S.L.E.E.P. test will help you pick the right mattress for you. But other than that, it doesn’t give you any real recommendations on type.

This article, (from an ex-mattress salesperson) helps a bit more. Basically, there are three types of mattresses – low quality, midrange, and high quality. Each mattress brand sells their models under different names in different stores. So the Simmons Lumberton is the name of a mattress in one store but it is called the Simmons Arbor Terrance at Macy’s.  So the first step is not to be fooled by the various model names. The second step is weight. In general, among brands, the heavier the weight, the better quality the mattress. For a child, who isn’t very heavy but needs good support, a mid-range mattress is probably appropriate.

To compare specific mattresses, there is always Consumer Reports. However, as in many categories, people obsessed with mattresses don’t think Consumer Reports is the best ranking system out there for mattresses.

Sleep geeks Sleep Like the Dead have a metric showing customer satisfaction with various mattresses. One important thing of note is that innerspring coil mattresses often have lower ratings over time because they wear out faster. But, often it’s the comfort layer (pillowtop or memory foam/latex topper) that wears out first. Two things. First, your small toddler is less likely to wear out the innerspring mattress, and second, you can get a firm mattress with a separate topper to lesson the chance of wear and tear.


The Baby Bargains forum has a good discussion of mattresses that are lower price but still good quality, a consideration when one is dealing with children. Ikea and Sams Club/Cotsco feature heavily in the discussion.

Another option is a mattress clearinghouse. I headed over to Mattress Firm’s outlet store yesterday. They steered me toward their house brand, Hampton Rhodes Bronze collection. However, I couldn’t find much on them online,and their price was similar to the mattress from Pottery Barn I’m thinking of getting, which is a Serta.

Kid-specific qualities:

Other qualities that one should look for in a kid’s mattress is waterproof (or make sure to get a waterproof cover), depth (a thinner mattress may help keep a bed low-profile so a child can climb in and out), something hypoallergenic (latex is considered good, and I’ve heard the Invigo Collection recommended as a good hypoallergenic mattress), and durable.

SavvyRest has some interesting ideas about different mattress types for boys and for girls. Your mileage may vary.

Land of Nod has a Simmons Beautyrest Beginnings mattress that fit a lot of these criteria.

Other Recommended Mattresses:

In terms of recommended mattresses for children, I hear a lot about the three “S’s – Simmons, Sealy, and Serta. Specifically, I hear about Simmons Beautyrest, Sealy Posturpedic, and Serta Perfect Sleeper. The Mattress Expert is obsessed about the Simmons Beautyrest Lumberton for kids.

Sleep City, which only sells Simmons and Tempurpedic, has recommends these.

What am I getting?

If I had an Ikea nearby, I’d check out their mattresses first. If I had a Land of Nod, I’d really be interested in their Simmons Beautyrest Beginnings.

Alas, all I have in terms of the fancy stores is Pottery Barn,which sells a Serta for a darn good price (better than the department stores and less sketchy that some of the mattress outlets). It has a memory foam topper, but other than that, the mattress seems perfect. It goes against some of the advice I read online, but for the price plus quality, plus the convenience of getting it at the same time I order the Pottery Barn bed, I will be a sheep-like consumer and will be spoonfed my mattress choice!

The Guide to Carseats: Part One

Well, baby J is probably soon going to outgrow his Graco Snugride 22.

It has served me well – two years and two babies. It was the perfect choice for us- relatively light (so picking it up wasn’t such a ridiculous chore), very cheap (although the Amazon link has it for $111, I picked up that exact seat for $65 at WalMart), and rated high for safety on Consumer Reports.

That’s not to say it didn’t have cons. The model I had, for example, made adjusting the straps a total bear. (They have fixed this with the new version of the seat, which is called the Graco Snugride Classic Connect). The LATCH connectors are not nearly as good as the much loved Chicco Keyfit. But for the cheap mama that I am – perfect.

Alas, it is time to buy him a convertible. I’m choosing between three models: a Britax, a Graco, and a Chicco.

LATCH? Convertible?? Chicco? Head spinning? Let’s start at the beginning.

Part One of our carseat guide is going to start with carseats for infants. Part Two will likely be a controversies post on the actual results of research on rear-facing.

There are two types of infant carseats – a bucket seat and a convertible seat

What is a bucket? What is a convertible? Which one should you choose?

A bucket seat (otherwise known as an infant seat) is like the classic baby carriers of the olden days. (Note: now, when people talk about baby carriers, they mean devices you use to strap the baby to you/wear your baby.)

Old school infant carrier (not for use as a carseat!)

Bucket Carseat

Features of a Bucket

– will fit a baby from newborn to late infancy/early toddlerhood (depending on brand and your child’s size)

– rearfacing only

– has a ‘base’ that stays in the car. You can then detach the carseat from the base with one hand and transport the carseat. You can connect this into another car that also has a base, or click it into a compatible stroller.

– you can also strap the carseat in the car using your seatbelt, in case you don’t happen to have a base.

car seat base




Your baby will outgrow it and then you will need to buy a convertible carseat anyway*

*Technically, you may be able to get away with not buying a convertible carseat after your baby outgrows the infant seat. But I don’t recommend that step. To understand this statement, let’s go over convertible seats.

Features of a convertible seat:

Fits children from newborn – early childhood (depending on features of particular seat and size of your child)

Is not portable

Some new kinds also have a base system, where the carseat locks into a base that stays in the car (but you still can’t really transport a sleeping child around in the carseat, which is a benefit of the bucket. And it won’t lock into a stroller).

Is rearfacing AND forward facing. (hence: convertible.)


Save money – skip the bucket seat.  (with some kinds, you can technically use the same seat throughout childhood).


Not portable

So, what do I recommend?

Depends? I guess with most people, I’d recommend getting the bucket. I know people who went straight to the convertible seat. They baby-wore their child when out of the car or placed him or her straight into a stroller made for newborns. For the parents who didn’t regret that decision one bit, I still noticed the child would be awakened when taken out of the carseat and wouldn’t fall back asleep, even if placed in a sling or wrap. No biggie to those parents. Would have frustrated the heck out of me. For my friends that did regret it, their main issue was restaurants. If you wear your baby, where the heck do you put him or her in a restaurant? (assuming you are dealing with a squishy newborn). Some parents have no trouble eating while wearing their baby (and their baby stays happy and content, even if awakened, because he or she is being worn) Other parents choose to use a stroller in those cases. But for those reasons, if you are ambivalent, I recommend going ahead and getting the bucket.

A couple of cons to the bucket. The bucket gets HEAVY after a while. Now, I don’t get why that’s such a big deal, because I’ve always always used a stroller frame  (we’ll discuss this later) that the bucket sits in to move the baby. I don’t just lug the bucket around myself. But oh well.

Second con: Too much time spent in the bucket, a common criticism made by babywearers. Valid. If your child is awake, go ahead and take him or her out of the carseat and carry him around for a bit.

Recommended bucket seats:

I’m not going to do personal recommendations, and instead draw from the giants of baby registry-ness: Lucie’s List, Consumer Reports, Baby Bargains, and specialized car seat sites.

Let’s start with the behemoth: The BabyCenter Carseat board. Like the Teach Your Baby To Sleep Board, these ladies have basically put together everything you need to know and I’m just reaping the benefits from all their research. I just want to make that clear. I am no car seat expert, but they are.

Here is the BBC Google Document (constantly updated) with their recommended bucket carseats. (Please click on the document for exhaustive details on each seat)

Top Seats:

Britax B-Safe or Bob B-Safe (4-30lbs)
Britax Chaperone (4-30lbs)

Chicco Keyfit/KeyFit 30 (4-22/30lb)

Combi Shuttle/Shuttle 33 (birth-33/35lbs)

Cybex Aton (4-32lbs)
Evenflo Embrace 35 (4-35lbs)
Graco SnugRide 30 (4-30lbs)

Graco SnugRide 35 (4 or 5-35lbs) (newest versions of the start at 4lbs)

Graco SnugRide Click Connect 40 (4-40lbs)

Learning Curve/First Years/Lamaze/JJ Cole Via I470 (5-35lbs)

Maxi-Cosi Prezi (4-30lbs)

Safety 1st OnBoard35/OnBoard35 Air/Eddie Bauer Sure Fit (4-35lbs) (some older versions started at 5lbs

or maxed out at 22lbs)

Summer Infant Prodigy (4-32lbs)

Check out the rest of the document for recommended bucket seats for those on a budget, for preemies, for small spaces, etc.

Also note they were not able to review the Graco ClassicConnect 30 because of how new it was at the time of the document, but other sites consider it a good carseat.

A few things of note that you’ll see mentioned in this document:

Height and Weight limits:

You’ll note that different brands have different height and weight limits. Of course, the more generous the height/weight limits, the longer you can keep your child in the bucket seat. However, with a few exceptions you will likely be putting your child in a convertible seat anyway, so the overall length of time your child is in the bucket doesn’t completely matter because at some point, he or she will be too heavy to pull the bucket out of the car easily.

There are exceptions to what I said above. Some bucket carseats go up to 40 pounds. The max rearfacing limit I’ve seen on convertible carseats is about 40 pounds, so you could then conceivably  just go straight from the bucket to a forward-facing carseat, instead of finding a convertible that does both rear-and forward facing.

In addition, your carseat philosophy matters. If you just follow the letter of the law (your child, in most states, must be 1 year old AND 20 pounds to be turned forward facing), then you can go straight from the bucket seat to a convertible seat.  If, like most children, your kid hits 20-22 pounds before he or she turns 1 year, you’ll want a bucket seat that accommodates a larger child. So, your 30 pound 1 year old can stay in the bucket seat and then get moved into a forward facing seat at a year old, thus saving the need for a convertible.

In my case, my kid didn’t hit 20 pounds until she was about 20 months old, so she definitely was still in a 22-pound weight limited bucket seat on her first birthday.

Three things to note, though, if you plan on going straight from a bucket seat to a forward facing seat:

1. Height: Even if you get a high-weight-limited seat, your child may STILL outgrow by height! (We’ll talk about height limits in a bit)

2. Annoyed child: Many children begin haaaating their bucket seats at a certain point, especially if the seat reclines too much. You may end up switching to a convertible when your child is 6 months old

3. Safety: If you plan on turning your child forward-facing as soon as possible (1 year old), keep in mind that current AAP recommendations suggest your child is rearfacing until at least 2 years old. The NHSC recommends your child is rearfacing until at least 3 years old. You’re the parent – honestly, I really don’t care – but don’t make a decision on this and then realize you’d rather have your kid be rearfacing as long as possible. (As for me, L and J will be rearfacing as long as there’s no reason to change the status quo. I may change my mind if a tantrum ever happens over it, but if they know no different, then most likely they won’t care. And L is so tiny I really would prefer to keep her rearfacing until she’s at least 3 years old).

cafepress_carseat safety

Yes I need to crop this.

And, of course, as I mentioned above, there will be a controversies post on rearfacing sometime soon.

Lucie’s List says it more clearly:

“You don’t need a 35 or 40lb infant seat. I swear.

Case in point… Lucie is 3 years old and weighs 32.5 lbs. Most people upgrade to a convertible car seat around 12 months of age anyway, so 90% of you will be just fine with a 22lb seat… and 100% of you will be just fine with a 30lb seat. 35 and 40lb infant seats are ludicrous. There’s NO WAY a 2 or 3 year old is going to sit in an infant bucket. Also remember car seats (of all types) are outgrown height-wise BEFORE your kiddo reaches the max weight. Promise.”

Let’s talk about height next. As the proprietor of Lucie’s List mentions above, often your child may outgrow the infant seat by height first as opposed to weight. Height is something we often forget to check when looking at car seat specs.

That being said, despite the ranges listed on bucket car seats’ height limits, unlike weight, these are just suggestions. The true way to see if your child has outgrown his or her car seat is by putting your child in the seat and then making sure his head is at least 1″ from the top of the shell. In the case of my daughter, who has longer legs with a shorter torso, she technically outgrew the seat by the manufacturer ranges but she was still about 3″ from the top of the shell so she could still be in it.

Handle Position:

Another thing you may notice in the Google Document is discussion on handle position. Different carseats have different safety rules regarding the handle on the bucket seat. For example, my Graco Snugride is safe in the car with the handle completely down or completely up. But, the manual indicates it is not safe to ride with the handle in the two in-between upright positions.

LATCH: Stands for Lower Anchors and Tethers for Children. This is a system installed in all newer cars allowing for an easy way to clip in a carseat.

For more acronym busters, check out the CPST Encyclopedia

Other review sites:
Here are other seats as recommended by review sites:

Consumer Reports:

22 lb capacity seats:

Keep in mind that any review site may have bias and errors.

Baby Bargains

From the 2011 edition:

Good: None. “Let’s be honest, if you’re on a super tight budget consider not buying an infant seat at all. A good 5 point convertible car seat will work for both infants and children.”

Better: Chicco Keyfit 30

Best: Graco Snugride 35 (but they mention the snugride 30 or 32 would work as well.)

Dark Horses: Britax Chaperone, First Years Via


This site has full reviews, as well as a separate list for preemies and multiples.

Britax B-Safe

Chicco KeyFit 30

Dorel onBoard 35 Air

Graco SnugRide 35

The reviewer on makes a great point regarding carseats and which one is best for you.

Experts know that the “best” seat is the one that fits your child, fits your vehicle, fits your budget, and will be used properly every single trip. This means there’s no single best seat for every situation, and it also means that *your* best seat might not be on this list. That’s OK! The list below contains seats which are generally found to be easy to use and to fit a fair variety of children and vehicles well. There are inexpensive and pricey seats on the list. While all seats have to meet the same basic safety standards, some seats may have features which make them more comfortable or easier to use. Speaking of safety, it’s not unusual to hear a parent say they purchased this seat or that one because “it was the safest.” While some seats may have features which could improve their performance in a crash, there aren’t any reliable, comprehensive crash test comparisons for US and Canadian seats. This means that there’s no way to tell if one seat is actually safer than another in the real world. Fortunately, a properly used seat provides excellent protection in most crashes. I hope the below list aids you in your search, and if you have any questions, please ask them on our forums! Infant Seats (rear facing with a carrying handle)

  • Cybex Aton ($$$$): 4 lb – 32 lb. Super easy to install with LATCh, small to fit in even snug back seats.
  • Chicco Keyfit 30 ($$$): 4 lb – 30 lb. Easy to install with LATCh or seatbelt, compatible with a number of Chicco strollers.
  • Graco Snugride 30 ($$): 4 lb – 30 lb. There are a variety of SnugRide models with different weight limits.

Other safe bets: Britax B-Safe ($$$), Britax Chaperone ($$$$), Combi Shuttle 35 ($$$), Evenflo Embrace 35 ($), Graco SnugRide 35 ($$$), Graco SnugRide Click Connect 40 ($$$$), Safety 1st Comfy Carry Elite Plus ($), Safety 1st Onboard 35 ($$), Safety 1st OnBoard Air ($$$)

Stroller/carseat combos

So, one of the benefits of a bucket carseat is the ability to click it into a stroller and go! (So no , you do not have to just cart around a heavy baby and heavy carseat).

Lucie’s List combines her carseat recommendations with stroller compatibility.

Best in Class

…..there are 3 (and one prospective) infant seats that are consistently awarded high marks from moms and experts alike. Depending on your budget, here are the four that I recommend:

$ — Graco SnugRide
$$ — Chicco KeyFit OR Britax B-Safe
$$$ — Britax Chaperone
$$$$ — UPPABaby Mesa [not until June of 2013]

**It will help you IMMENSELY to select an infant seat that’s compatible with your stroller of choice. It will save you $50+ on a special “car seat adapter” alone. See notes on each car seat…

1. Graco SnugRide ClassicConnect 30, $99, 7.5 lbs

** Stroller compatibility: the Snug Ride car seat goes nicely with their basic stroller frame, the Snug Rider Elite. At 15.5lbs and $75, the Graco Literider is also a option — it can be used with or without the carseat. I don’t recommend any other Graco “travel system” strollers because they are too heavy and bulky. 

2a. Chicco KeyFit 30, $175


** Stroller compatibility: For your lightweight stroller base (for car seat only), go with the KeyFit Caddy. BUT WAIT! The Chicco Liteway Plus is a better option, it offers a lightweight base for your car seat, then later becomes a regular umbrella stroller. Killing 2 birds with 1 stone, that’s what I’m talkin’ about!

2b. Britax B-Safe, $175

………** Stroller compatibility: The true beauty of the B-Safe is his compatibility with Britax and BOB strollers (Britax bought BOB last year). For a lightweight umbrella stroller that can be used with or without the car seat, check out the B-Nimble (similar to the Chicco Liteway Plus). The B-Safe + B-Agile stroller is an awesome combination. You can also use him with the ever-popular B-Ready stroller, which upgrades to a double (read more below in Strollers) when you have another kiddo. He also goes with any of the BOB jogging strollers (with an adapter). Essentially, you have better stroller options with the B-Safe than the KeyFit. Yes, it’s true.

3. Britax Chaperone, Retails for $235 (on Amazon for $184), 10lbs

…….** Stroller compatibility: Again, this Britax seat plays nicely with Britax and BOB strollers. For a lightweight umbrella stroller that can be used with or without the car seat, check out the B-Nimble (similar to the Chicco Liteway Plus). This guy + the B-Agile stroller is an awesome combination (see below). You can also use him with the ever-popular B-Ready stroller, which upgrades to a double stroller (read more below in Strollers). He also goes with any of the BOB jogging strollers with an adapter.

4. UPPABaby Mesa, $279, 10.5 lbs

UPPABaby is a luxury brand that’s actually worth the money, in my opinion; …….

** Stroller compatibility: Let’s face it, if you’re in the market for an upscale car seat [ahem], you’re probably also looking for an upscale stroller as well. Your stroller options for the Mesa do not disappoint: he fits directly into the UPPABaby Cruz or Vista (see below), both of which I recommend. Your problem is going to be finding a simple, lightweight stroller base for this guy. I know of none (so far)…

There are basically two options in terms of stroller compatibility. You can click your carseat into a stroller that is designed to accommodate a stroller on top (with or without an adaptor), or you can use a lightweight stroller frame whose only job is to give your stroller wheels.

There are three basic lightweight stroller frames – the Graco Snugrider Elite, the Chicco Keyfit Caddy, and the Babytrend Snap n Go.  As their names imply, these frames will work with their brand carseat – however, many of these brands will also accommodate other carseats. You will need to check the reviews.

We have a Graco Snugrider (not the Elite, which is a newer, better model) and it is by far my favorite baby purchase. (Especially because I got it for $10 at a yard sale).

Graco Snugrider and the Graco Snugride22 combo. Oh,and a Bebe Au Lait nursing cover :-)

Graco Snugrider and the Graco Snugride22 combo. Oh,and a Bebe Au Lait nursing cover 🙂

In addition, as Lucie’s List recommend above, if you get the Chicco Keyfit carseat, you should probably get the Chicco Liteway Plus to go with it.  I have the original Chicco LIteway umbrella stroller (not the kind that accommodates a carseat – that didn’t exist yet) and I love it because it is both sturdy and light and can accommodate a newborn by lying flat. The addition of compatibility with a carseat is amazing!  If all this existed when I had my first baby, I probably would have splurged for the Chicco Keyfit carseat, gotten the Liteway plus, then upgraded to the Chicco NextFit convertible carseat (which will be available on April 30 2013). Alas, not only did all this not exist, but I went extremely cheap with my first baby (preferring the cheaper, less luxury Graco brand) not realizing I’d have back to back babies.

Shopping carts

Two things here. First, most carseats are not designed to fit into the shopping cart, despite what you see at the grocery store. Check your manual – this can hurt the LATCH system on your carseat. That being said, I’ve heard anecdotal evidence that at least one carseat brand has shopping cart instructions in its manual. If that’s the case, then sure, go for it. But check your manual. Most major brands explicitly say not to.

Second, if you decide to go against the manual and put your carseat in the shopping cart anyway, then check Amazon reviews to see if your carseat clicks in easily. I know Amazon reviewers suggested  my old-style Graco Snugride 22 does not work very well in shopping carts.

Recommended Convertible Carseats

Before I get into recommended convertible seats, remember that all these seats have way different features. Some of them can be used from birth to grade school, (and will go from rear-facing, to foward-facing, to high-backed booster), ostensibly meaning that “this will be the only seat you will ever need”.

But but but, remember that there may be height restrictions, and your child may again outgrow the seat via height first. So don’t immediately assume an all-in-one seat is best!

As usual, Lucie’s List explains this very well, as well as explains why 1.) rearfacing is considered the best for as long as possible (a future controversies post for me!) and 2.) why harnessed seats for older children is considered better than just a booster seat.

These are her recommended seats:

——- Summary ———–

$ ~ Safety 1st OnSide Air Protect ($80)read more

$$ ~ Britax Roundabout ($140)read more

$$ ~ Evenflo Symphony 65 e3 ($175)read more

$$$ ~ True Fit Premier by First Years ($200)read more

$$$$ ~ Britax Boulevard ($225) read more

*** Chicco NextFit to be added to this list — reviewing pending…($280)
—- Seats for Special Situations —-

Small car ~ Combi Cocorro ($160-$240) [more]

3-across ~ Diono Radian ($240ish)  [more]

For Newborns ~ Maxi Cosi Pria 70, True Fit Premier, Evenflo Triumph Advance, Cosco Scenera [more]

For Flying ~ Cosco Scenera, Evenflo Tribute, Safety 1st OnSide Air (all < $100)  [more]

You’re Loaded!~ Peg Perego Primo Viaggio SIP 5-70 ($330)  [more]

Carseatblog’s list:  (again, click on the link for full reviews and specs)

Britax Boulevard 70-G3 & Advocate 70-G3 

Britax Roundabout 55

Combi Coccoro

Cosco Scenera & Scenera 40 RF

Diono Radian RXT

Evenflo Symphony 65 E3 (aka Evenflo Symphony DLX)

Evenflo Triumph Advance 65

 True Fit Premier c670 & True Fit SI (Side Impact) c680 by Learning Curve

Graco Size4Me 70 & My Size 70 (BRU exclusive – same product; different name)

Orbit Toddler G2

Safety 1st Complete Air 65 LX

Maxi-Cosi Pria 70 with TinyFit

Peg Perego Primo Viaggio SIP 5-70’s list:

  • Britax Boulevard 70-G3 ($$$$): 5 – 40 lb rear facing; up to 70 lb forward facing harnessed. Easy to install.

  • Diono Radian RXT ($$$$$) or Diono Radian R120 ($$$$): 5 lb – 45 lb rear facing; up to 80 lb forward facing harnessed; Booster to 120 lb. 3-in-1 seat can be used rear or forward facing or as a booster, quite narrow, folds for storage or travel through an airport.

  • Dorel (Safety 1st) Guide 65 ($): 5 lb – 40 lb rear facing; up to 65 lb forward facing harnessed. Simple seat for a tight budget.

  • Graco My Ride 65 ($$): 4 lb – 40 lb rear facing; up to 65 lb forward facing harnessed. Fairly wide, but comfortable.

  • The First Years True Fit ($$$): 5 – 35 lb rear facing; up to 65 lb forward facing harnessed. Removable headrest allows it to fit in smaller backseats, even when reclined for a newborn.

Other safe bets: Britax Advocate 70-G3 ($$$$$), Britax Marathon Classic ($$$), Britax Roundabout 50 Classic ($$), Britax Roundabout 55 ($$$), Dorel (Cosco) Apt 40 ($), Dorel (Cosco) Scenera ($), Dorel (Maxi-Cosi) Pria ($$$$), Dorel (Safety 1st) Complete Air 65 ($$$), Dorel (Safety 1st) OnSide Air ($), Evenflo Tribute ($), Evenflo Triumph ($$), Graco My Ride 70 ($$), Graco Size4Me ($$$), Peg Perego Primo Viaggio SIP 5-70 Convertible ($$$$$)

Consumer Reports:

BabyCenter:  (note: the BBC ladies haven’t been able to review the Chicco NextFit yet, but they are oh so excited about it)

Britax Roundabout 50 Classic, Marathon Classic
Britax Roundabout 55, Highway 65, Marathon 70, Boulevard 70, Pavilion 70, Advocate 70
Clek Foonf
Diono Radian R100, R120, and RXT (formerly Sunshine Kids Radian 65SL/80SL/XTSL)
Eddie Bauer Comfort
Evenflo Momentum
Evenflo SureRide/Titan
Evenflo Triumph
First Years (Learning Curve) TrueFit/TrueFit Premier
Graco MyRide 65/MyRide 70
Graco MySize 70/Size4Me 70
Maxi-Cosi Pria 70
Peg Perego Primo Viaggio SIP Convertible
Safety 1st Alpha Elite 65
Safety 1st Complete Air65
Safety 1st Guide 65/EasyFit/Eddie Bauer XRS 65


Good: The Cosco Scenera or the Evenflo Titan Elite.

Better: The Sunshine Kids Radian 65 or the First Years True Fit.

Best: The Britax Marathon 70.

If Money is No Object: The Britax Boulevard 70 CS or the Recaro ProRIDE.

Another overview of convertibles (including helpful links)

What we have:

We have the Graco MyRide 65 for L. It works fine, and we like the cupholders. I hate hate hate the belt clasps, though.

It technically works for kids 5-40 pounds rearfacing then up to 65 pounds forward facing. However, when we tried to put Baby J in the seat on the way home from the hospital, we were not comfortable with how it worked (with the infant insert). Of course, we really couldn’t figure out how to get it right, so it was probably user error. I did read reviews that the MyRide isn’t as great for smaller babies (both L and J were 6lbs 9oz at birth). However, Lactation Chic used the MyRide from birth, and her daughter was also 6lb 9oz, so there you have it.

For Baby J’s convertible carseat, I am looking at three  – another MyRide 65, the Britax Roundabout 55 (apparently a nicer carseat, although I’d have to pay $12 to get an attached cupholder- believe me, when you have toddlers, it matters), and the upcoming Chicco NextFit, which has many many carseat dorks in a tizzy. The Roundabout and the MyRide are in the same price range; the NextFit is about $100 more expensive.
What if you need an extra convertible seat for Grandma’s car?

If you are using a bucket seat, just purchase an extra base.

For convertibles, most of the websites above have great recommendations for budget convertible carseats. The Cosco Scenera is one that comes up time and time again.

As for our Grandma, I may instead suggest to her that she get the upcoming Chicco NextFit, because of how easy it is to remove it from her car. It’s much more expensive than a typical “extra” carseat (it’s the carseat I want for Baby J), but in our family, ease of removal and re-installation is more important.


Most of the websites I list above have information on what carseats are best for preemies (ex: some need a carbed as opposed to a carseat). Keep in mind that although most convertible seats say that they can be used from babies 5lbs and above, that those seats are still a bit difficult for use with a preemie or a small baby. However, even some bucket carseats are not great with small babies.

More information:

For a great resource on carseat safety, plus more specs on various carseats, check out

Babywearing Part One: The Stretchy Wrap

Moby - a back view. What this beautiful scene doesn't show is that the baby got super overheated about five minutes later

Moby – a back view. What this beautiful scene doesn’t show is that the baby got super overheated about five minutes later

It’s been a while since I’ve done a simple, resource-y post.  So let’s start with something very simple – babywearing.

To go even simpler, let’s start with a kind of babywearing apparatus most people are familiar with: the Moby Wrap. The Moby is a kind of stretchy wrap. Stretchy wraps – which are basically long pieces of stretchy t-shirt-like fabric –  are great for your itty bitty newborn, but a bit more difficult when dealing with older and heavier babies. Other kinds of babywearing devices are soft-structured carriers, woven wraps, ring slings, mei teis, and pouches.  (For a more detailed, ridiculously comprehensive overview of types of carriers, go here).

I’m going to start with the pros and cons of stretchy wraps, but remember, not all stretchy wraps are created equal. Most of my pros/cons refer to the Moby; other wraps may have some different characteristics. Therefore, I will also go through the information on each type of stretchy wrap to help you pick the best for you.

Pros of stretchy wraps:

Twin carry!

Great for newborns. Gives them a snuggly feeling

Great for kangaroo care of preemies

Very comfortable once you get it right. Spreads the weight over both your shoulders. You could wear a young baby in the wrap all day.

Cons of stretchy wraps:

Only safe for front carries! (Despite the fact that there are instructions and photos showing back carry in stretchy wraps, do not do this. If you want to use a wrap for back carry, get a woven wrap. The exception is some woven-stretchy hybrids. But not the Moby. Never the Moby.)

Can get hot in the summer

Somewhat more difficult to nurse in

Sometimes hard to get a hang of putting it on, especially when you’re dragging a long piece of cloth around in the parking lot of the grocery store trying to get a squalling newborn settled in it.

Most of them are only comfortable up to about 18 pounds (the exception being the Wrapsody and other hybrids)

Brands of stretchy wraps:

Moby Wrap – This is the kind of wrap with which most people are familiar.  They are about $45-$50 and come in all sorts of colors. The Moby gets HOT in the summer (I know from personal experience).

My personal review? I myself wasn’t a huge fan of the Moby. My babies loved the Moby when I finally got them situated, but it was really hard for me to get it ‘right’. I got the basic hug hold down pretty easily, but the issue was that sometimes I would have it set too tight, and sometimes I would have it set too loose. So I’d have to get the baby mad by taking him or her out and readjusting. And then, inevitably, the baby would have to  nurse. Since I could never figure out how to nurse in the Moby, I would have to take the baby out. Neither child liked having the Moby against my skin while I nursed, so I’d have to unwrap the whole thing. Then nurse. Then start all over, trying to get the Moby situated right.

Boba/Sleepytime Wrap

When a good friend asked about wraps, I told her about my Moby experience and recommended the Boba Wrap instead. The Boba (which was formerly known as a Sleepytime Wrap) isn’t as stretchy as the Moby, which means it’s easier to get the tightness/looseness right.

In addition, although I can’t attest to this personally, apparently the Boba doesn’t get as hot, making it much more ideal for warmer climates.

Calin Bleu (microfleece)  – no personal experience. The Calin Blue cool gauze wrap is a woven and the microfleece is a stretchy.

Kari-Me  – A UK brand similar to the Moby

Tricot-Slen – A Belgian brand similar to the Moby

Hug-a-Bub– An Australian brand similar to the Moby

Cot2Tot – a UK brand similar to the Boba

Wrapsody Bali Stretch* – This is a cross between a stretchy wrap and a woven wrap.  As such, it can hold heavier babies. It has a more difficult learning  curve than true stretchy wraps (woven wraps are harder to learn) but is more versatile,allowing for back and hip carries.  It is also more like a woven in that it stays cool in the summer.

Je Porte Mama Bebe* – another cross between a stretchy wrap and a woven wrap.  Similar to the Wrapsody and can also do back carries/toddlers.

Baby K’Tan* – The K’Tan isn’t a stretchy wrap per se; it is more like a cross between a sling and a wrap. But when worn, it looks similar enough to a Moby that some moms look at it as an alternative option, so I’m going to put it on this list.

The babywearing experts at BabyCenter are not Baby K’Tan fans because of its price and because instructions from older versions show back carry pictures, which is a dangerous proposition in the K’Tan.

Caboo Carrier by Close Parent – this is like a cross between a ring sling, a wrap, and a soft-structured carrier. It’s really a wrap, but it’s already put together for you, and then adjustable via rings on the back.

Go here for some comparison between the types of stretchy wraps

Make your own:


The Hug Hold is the recommended carry by Babywearers International. This has different names in different products. Unlike the cradle carry, the hug hold keeps the baby up near your chest where you can safely kiss the top of his or her head and see that he or she is breathing.

Moby Wrap instructions

Moby Wrap video

Boba Wrap instructions

Kari-Me instructions

Calin Bleu instructions

Tricot Slen instructions

Caboo instructions

Tips and Tweaks for stretchy wraps


Nursing in the stretchy wrap:

Oh, Crap. Potty Training – A Review

Potty training. One of the best pieces of advice Jamie Glowacki puts in her e-book, Oh Crap. Potty Training, is to never announce on Facebook that you are potty training. You will get unsolicited advice by the pounds. And if you fail (especially if you are potty training ‘early’, i.e. before or right around 2 years old), the “I told you so”s will be epic.

It’s with that in mind that I start writing this post in the draft folder of the blog, hoping none of my contributing authors will really notice the subject. I didn’t plan on posting this until we actually succeeded in potty training, whether that was in the next three days or if it was in another year.  However, with Day 4 of training under way, I think we’re in a good enough place to submit an initial review.

Potty training is one of those things I’ve never exhaustively researched. I don’t have at hand one of the many scholarly articles that talks about the average age, or about night training, or about bed wetting; honestly, I think I’m in denial. I don’t want to potty train. If it were up to me, I’d be waiting until she’s three.

Unfortunately, I’m an avid enough blog reader that I came across Oh Crap. Potty Training about 6 months ago. And what Jamie Glowacki has to say hits home. The best age for potty training is between 20-30 months. The idea of waiting until everyone is ready is crap because by then, it’ll be too late. Don’t delay.

Well, crap. I don’t know if she’s right, but what’s the worst that could happen? I’ll try between 20 and 30 months. If not, we’ll do it at three years old like I prefer.

Jamie makes her money through selling her e-books and access to her forums, so I will try not to ‘give anything away’ here. But, the very gist of her message is that there’s nothing to give away. There’s no method. There’s no gimmick. Just common sense. (Reminds me of the No Cry Sleep Solution, which is just a collection of common sense, no matter how helpful it is.)

I finally bit the bullet and bought the e-book when L turned 23 months old. She hits all the criteria for readiness in Jamie’s book. She can sing her ABCs. She can communicate her needs. She can throw a tantrum over a piece of candy. It’s go time.

The first ‘block’ is all about letting your child run around naked and watch for pee cues. No begging every 15 minutes to go potty, no forced potty-sitting routines. Just catch them when they’re about to pee and stick them on the pot.

The first half day was an utter failure. I outsourced all home routines (and baby J care) to my husband. Yet, the two times I looked away for half a second, seriously, we had accidents. Jamie mentions – this is not the time to make the phone call you need to make. Your entire focus is on the kid.


L is my entire focus. But she runs away to the living room to get away from baby J, who is grabbing at her toy. I run after her. In that interim time, she pees. She is distraught, I calm her down, we clean up the mess together (she does this automatically, being trained from infancy to clean up spills).  This is all after, of course, I stick her first immediately on to the potty to catch any last drips.

This is the story for the entire rest of the day. Missed opportunities, a child that holds it like a camel. She knows what she’s supposed to do – she just doesn’t know how to do it.

At the end of Day 1, I have her sit for a while. I walk away to the kitchen (according to the book, a ‘stealth pee-er’ (my nickname) is a good sign. It means the child can hold it, and wants privacy).

Success, and a very proud child. I put a cloth diaper on her for bedtime and the day is done.

Day 2 – utter failure again. Utter, utter failure. With the success of the end of day 1, I decide to prompt her to potty. Over and over again. I stick her on there at intervals. She can sit there for an hour. Nothing. She stands up, runs away, and sometime later, another accident. Gah.

Day 3 continues the string of accidents and hour long potty sessions with no production. I start despairing. I alternate throughout the day in letting her run around completely naked and putting some clothes on her (it’s cold here!).

Let’s go on a tangent here. If you read the book, you HAVE to absorb one of Jamie’s first lessons. This is NOT a method. You know your child the best. This is collected wisdom from an experienced potty trainer. There is no timetable. And, do not prompt your kid to potty over and over again. Stop bugging them.

Like many parents, I forgot that lesson. I thought Block One should equal Day One. It was Day Three. Shouldn’t we be on Block Three by now? I asked. Shouldn’t she be trained?

So, off that tangent. I realize I was bugging her and watching her because I really didn’t want her to have an accident. So, at the end of Day Three, I decided to give up. Into a diaper she’d go,and we’d commence ‘casual’ potty training (the kind Jamie despises). I’d let her use the potty once in a while – heck, I’d let her run around naked if she wanted – but I was sick of being tied to the house. We had already missed my church Bible study on Monday because she was potty training. I had a baby sitter coming the next day (today). We had a children’s music program on Wednesday. We couldn’t keep doing this.  My mom, a pediatrician, tells me she’s too young. Wait until at least 2.5 years old, she says. I agree. The experiment was done.

Oh, fate. Oh, relaxation. Well, my daughter is stubborn. She HATES diapers, she wants to be a big girl, and she knows what she’s supposed to do. I tried to put a cloth diaper on her. She resisted. She said she had to potty. Okay, I let her. She sat on there for 15-20 minutes. Nothing. I finally wrestled the diaper on her. About a minute later she’s screeching again that she needs to potty. I sit her on there again and walk away.

Success! She did need to – she just needed some time. Throughout the rest of the evening, she told me every time she needed to potty. Four successes, no prompting from me. The only accident we had was when I tried to put her on the big toilet (she hates it), and she immediately wanted to get down. (Note to self: buy potty chair for upstairs).

So we’re in Day 4. She’s with a babysitter. I told the sitter that she was welcome to force a cloth diaper on her so she wouldn’t be too much of a pain, but that at the moment she was commando. Our babysitter is an experienced mom of two (and if not a grandmother, is at least grandmotherly). She nodded sagely and confidently – she knows what to do.

L is definitely not trained. I don’t know what I’ll find when I get home. But I have a.) a smart girl who knows what I expect of her b.) a child that hates diapers c.) a child who wants to be a big girl d.) a child who is now in cloth diapers, which is a new experience for her (she’s used to disposables; I used to cloth diaper her when she was a baby but she doesn’t remember).

We have all the elements of success. It may take another year, or it may just take two more days – either way, I credit Jamie Glowacki’s book for setting the stage.

Buy “Oh Crap. Potty Training!” here. Buying the book also gives you access to the forums (fair warning – the forums were the place that gave me the ideas of bugging her to sit on the chair, etc – things that Jamie probably wouldn’t approve of). Jamie also has a call-in online radio show, private consultations, and group events.

Basics: Registry

Expecting? Trying to figure out what the heck to register for? Check out these tools:

Lucie’s List  and the Baby Bargains book (and forums) are both great at helping you figure out what you need and don’t need and providing the most cost-effective option.     Check out Consumer Reports for quality ratings on most baby stuff. And if you’re up for crowdsourcing, WeeSpring is a great service for seeing what your friends recommend.

Don’t want to be stuck with just one store? Amazon has a universal registry (but it may be hard for grandma to navigate). There’s also – a truly universal registry where you can ask for a doula and a breastpump in the same place.

Update: I forgot a UK website that I used quite extensively when searching for a stroller. Very very helpful.